Articles tagged 'core gifts'

February 13, 2012
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Deeper Dating: The Three Steps That Lead to Love

A message for all single people: The way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. Our culture assails us with romanticized images of love, yet encourages us to play dehumanizing games in order to find it. The three steps I describe will lead you toward real love, but they will…

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January 20, 2012
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Five Keys To Developing Your Deepest Gifts

Core Gifts are the most tender places inside us. They lie at the very heart of our creativity and our love. If we open to them, they guide us inexorably to what matters most to us. To ignore them is to commit an act of quiet violence against ourselves. This post will help you discover…

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December 30, 2011
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Two Tools For Changing Your Life That Don’t Require Willpower

If you’re looking for more happiness and greater intimacy in the year ahead, here are two of the most valuable tools I know. Don’t be deceived by the comfort and pleasure they bring; these are direct paths to profound life-change. Try them out, and enjoy the deliciously subversive experience of learning through joy. Read MoreĀ 

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December 14, 2011
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The Secret Story Behind Your Romantic Attractions

Almost all of us create a personal “myth of lost love” to explain why love has hurt us in the past. Unexamined, this powerful myth leads to painful relationships with people who aren’t good for us. Decoded, it illuminates our most tender, authentic self; the very self that can lead us to love. This post…

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November 6, 2011

How Even A Flawed Spiritual Practice Can Lead You to Love

This short practice is a life-enhancing tool for finding love. It liberates waves of buried passion, and channels that passion to change the course of our intimacy lives. There.s no rigid meditation recipe to follow. All you need is your longing for love and ten minutes a day. Even if your focus is terrible (as…

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