Articles tagged 'finding love'

May 13, 2012
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How to Develop Sexual and Romantic Attraction to People Who Are Good for You

Sexual attraction can’t be forced. Most of us have learned that the hard way. What we haven’t been taught is that sexual attractions can be educated. Even if you’re relentlessly attracted to bad-boys, bad girls, or to unavailable people, you can still learn how to cultivate your attraction to partners who are good for you….

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February 13, 2012
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Deeper Dating: The Three Steps That Lead to Love

A message for all single people: The way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. Our culture assails us with romanticized images of love, yet encourages us to play dehumanizing games in order to find it. The three steps I describe will lead you toward real love, but they will…

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December 30, 2011
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Two Tools For Changing Your Life That Don’t Require Willpower

If you’re looking for more happiness and greater intimacy in the year ahead, here are two of the most valuable tools I know. Don’t be deceived by the comfort and pleasure they bring; these are direct paths to profound life-change. Try them out, and enjoy the deliciously subversive experience of learning through joy. Read MoreĀ 

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November 6, 2011

How Even A Flawed Spiritual Practice Can Lead You to Love

This short practice is a life-enhancing tool for finding love. It liberates waves of buried passion, and channels that passion to change the course of our intimacy lives. There.s no rigid meditation recipe to follow. All you need is your longing for love and ten minutes a day. Even if your focus is terrible (as…

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