My work as a psychotherapist and coach lies at the heart of everything I write and teach. Every day, I have the privilege of watching my clients’ lives change and blossom in ways that awe me and ignite a sense of wonder. If you have a deep commitment to your own growth, and if you are seeking healthy love or deeper intimacy, I invite you to work with me privately or semi-privately, via phone or Skype or in person in New York City. I do individual psychotherapy, and Deeper Dating coaching--privately and in small groups.


Small-group coaching is a wonderful way to work closely with me as part of a very small group.  Each group has only four members, which allows me the time to offer a great deal of personal time to each group member. At the same time, the profound power of a group of caring and committed co-journeyers enriches the entire experience for all the members. This is also a way to work closely with me for a lower fee that individual work. 

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Individual Sessions


The coaching work I do is very powerful, and often goes as deep as psychotherapy. As the only person qualified to teach the work of Deeper Dating, I will personally guide you through the life-changing process of the Deeper Dating journey. You’ll come to discover the profound power and promise of your own unique Core Gifts, and that in itself will hold the power to change your life and your relationship future.

You’ll come to understand your patterns of attraction in a whole new way, and you’ll learn the most important dating skill of all: distinguishing between your attractions of deprivation and inspiration--and learning how to only choose the latter. described my insights about attraction as “what you need to know--right now--about your future relationships.” You’ll learn to crack the code of your own attractions and learn the powerful things they can teach your about yourself and your life.

And finally, with my close guidance, you’ll discover new ways to navigate your entire search for love: ways based on your authentic self, not by the tricks of manipulative seduction or the gimmicks promising to “make men (or women--or either!) fall for you forever.  

This work is life-changing; joyful, powerful and challenging. It thrills me profoundly to see the changes people experience, and to see people finding real love, and even more importantly, discovering the love, promise and possibility within their own authentic self. 

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In addition to Deeper Dating coaching, I also practice individual psychotherapy, by phone or Skype, or in-person. I work with people from a vast range of backgrounds with a vast range of goals for their work in therapy. At the heart of my work lies the discovery of one’s Core Gifts, the places of our deepest sensitivity. These parts of ourselves shape our lives in the most essential ways: As we embrace them, our existence and our identity—and our relationships—begin to make sense in a whole new way. Ignoring these gifts is an act of quiet violence against ourselves. Learning to embrace them changes our entire lives for the better.

Here are some of the areas of my expertise:

  • Intimacy Creating, and Deepening intimacy in our lives and relationships
  • The Search for healthy love
  • Addiction
  • Self-esteem issues
  • Professional/Career growth
  • Trauma
  • LGBTQ issues
  • Parenting issues
  • Creativity
  • Sexual Issues
  • Meditation and Spirituality
  • EMDR work for trauma or personal growth

I usually only have very few openings and though I often have a small waiting list, people who want to work with me can be “floaters,” taking spots that become available through cancellations until a regular spot opens up.

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Deeper Dating

Ken is a renowned psychotherapist, leading Psychology Today blogger, HuffPost blogger and author of the bestsellerDeeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy.  He has been featured on WPIX-TV, The Discovery Channel, Fox News Extra, and in O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, and more.

Page has led hundreds of workshops on intimacy and spirituality for thousands of participants. He has taught at Columbia University, the Omega Institute and the Garrison Institute. Page founded Deeper Dating in 2004 as an event platform in which trained facilitators speak on sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality in the world of dating and then lead participants in a series of fun and enriching exercises. The live events he has led provide an alternative to the bar scene and superficial dating events. They have drawn thousands of men and women of all ages and sexual orientations and have received much media attention.  Ken resides in New York with his partner and son.